Recommendation Caution to PNM's

[Meow190]

Hi there ladies (and gents perhaps). I have a bit of an oddball question. You may have heard it before, but I couldnt seem to find it listed in the search feature. I have established a meeting with a few of the lovely ladies from my local alumnae organization in the hopes of getting to know a bit more about their GLO and perhaps securing a rec. Is this the kind of meeting where it would be appropriate for me to treat them, or should we each expect to pay for our own coffee? If they offer to treat me, what should my response be? I'm not all that concerned about the cost, I just dont want to make things awkward for anyone.

Thanks so much for all of your lovely advice (both what I have already read, and in anticipation of what y'all will tell me about this one). It is truly inspiring to see how being in a sisterhood (again, or brotherhood) has continued to be a part of your lives in such a delightful way.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by Meow190

Hi there ladies (and gents perhaps). I have a bit of an oddball question. You may have heard it before, but I couldnt seem to find it listed in the search feature. I have established a meeting with a few of the lovely ladies from my local alumnae organization in the hopes of getting to know a bit more about their GLO and perhaps securing a rec. Is this the kind of meeting where it would be appropriate for me to treat them, or should we each expect to pay for our own coffee? If they offer to treat me, what should my response be? I'm not all that concerned about the cost, I just dont want to make things awkward for anyone.

I would think that you should expect to each pay for your own.

However, if you really want to treat them, I suppose you could. I doubt they'd expect you to, because you're a student.

If they offer to treat, then I would accept (just being polite).