Michael Jackson rushed to hospital

[Munchkin03]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

Rest in peace.

ETA: Note that this post is different than saying "decent dancer and even worse human being...the world lost a good one...." I suspect that MJ was involved in some things that could've contributed to his passing. But, that doesn't make him a bad person to me nor does it minimize the impact of his career and his passing for those who feel impacted.

I was going back and forth with a group of friends about this, and this is what I wrote:

"The Michael Jackson that many people are mourning has been gone for about 15 years. Nearly everyone has memories of Michael Jackson songs and videos for years before the molestation claims came to light; as someone on NPR said this morning, there's not a Michael Jackson hit that doesn't invoke memories. You remember where you were in your life when "Beat It," "Bad," or "Black or White" was popular. It's probably how our parents felt when John Lennon and Marvin Gaye died. Someone who created the soundtrack to our youth--our wonder years, as it were--is dead, and it reminds us that much more that we're getting older and we're going to die too, regardless of how they actually died.

In other words, the Michael Jackson I and at least a billion other people around the world are mourning is not the one who called his son "Blanket," who was rumored to have purchased the Elephant Man's skeleton, or the one who, as we now know, was addled with painkillers since his brush with death back in the 80s. We are mourning the little kid and the dance machine--in other words, the talented and charismatic entertainer.

It's not my place to determine the veracity of the molestation claims, but I could honestly see them going either way. I'm not a Michael Jackson fan per se; I've never purchased one of his albums, a concert ticket, or a glittery glove. That said, when I heard that he had taken ill and later died, the MJ from "Billie Jean" and the Jackson 5 popped in my head, not the pale, plastic shell of that person who he became in his later years. I wouldn't be surprised if the vast majority of mourners are seeing that person. He's kind of like Elvis that way."

[KSigkid]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

I was going back and forth with a group of friends about this, and this is what I wrote:

"The Michael Jackson that many people are mourning has been gone for about 15 years. Nearly everyone has memories of Michael Jackson songs and videos for years before the molestation claims came to light; as someone on NPR said this morning, there's not a Michael Jackson hit that doesn't invoke memories. You remember where you were in your life when "Beat It," "Bad," or "Black or White" was popular. It's probably how our parents felt when John Lennon and Marvin Gaye died. Someone who created the soundtrack to our youth--our wonder years, as it were--is dead, and it reminds us that much more that we're getting older and we're going to die too, regardless of how they actually died.

In other words, the Michael Jackson I and at least a billion other people around the world are mourning is not the one who called his son "Blanket," who was rumored to have purchased the Elephant Man's skeleton, or the one who, as we now know, was addled with painkillers since his brush with death back in the 80s. We are mourning the little kid and the dance machine--in other words, the talented and charismatic entertainer.

It's not my place to determine the veracity of the molestation claims, but I could honestly see them going either way. I'm not a Michael Jackson fan per se; I've never purchased one of his albums, a concert ticket, or a glittery glove. That said, when I heard that he had taken ill and later died, the MJ from "Billie Jean" and the Jackson 5 popped in my head, not the pale, plastic shell of that person who he became in his later years. I wouldn't be surprised if the vast majority of mourners are seeing that person. He's kind of like Elvis that way."

I think that's fair enough, but I also can't blame people who remember the other side of him. He was a polarizing figure, and I think that came through pretty clearly, both in the bizarre stories that came out in his final years, as well as the tributes that have come out after his death.

[Munchkin03]

Originally Posted by KSigkid

I think that's fair enough, but I also can't blame people who remember the other side of him. He was a polarizing figure, and I think that came through pretty clearly, both in the bizarre stories that came out in his final years, as well as the tributes that have come out after his death.

I don't blame those people either--I see where they're coming from. After all, it's very easy to focus on the bad, or what's most apparent in your memory. For example, for all of the acting and singing successes Vanessa L. Williams has had, there will always be people who see her as nothing more than "Vanessa the Undresser," the girl who lost her Miss America crown after taking dirty pictures. For some people, it's easier to separate the entertainer from the scandal--especially if decades spanned between the fame and the scandal. (No, I'm not equating accusations of child molestation and general weirdness with Penthouse photos. I'm using that as an example of how the public will see what it wants to see. This clearly goes both ways.)

Like I said, I'm no "fan." I've just noticed a lot of animosity--not here, but in other places--directed at those people who have expressed anything other than apathy about his passing. I sent that e-mail to explain what other people for whom the "Wacko Jacko" image doesn't immediately pop up might be feeling.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

I don't blame those people either--I see where they're coming from. After all, it's very easy to focus on the bad, or what's most apparent in your memory. For example, for all of the acting and singing successes Vanessa L. Williams has had, there will always be people who see her as nothing more than "Vanessa the Undresser," the girl who lost her Miss America crown after taking dirty pictures. For some people, it's easier to separate the entertainer from the scandal--especially if decades spanned between the fame and the scandal.

Yep and such overshadowing has happened to many celebs and noncelebs.

For some celebs who didn't win at life in other realms, people are more capable of separating the entertainer from the scandal. Maybe that's based on fanbase, the publicity behind the scandal, or how well the celeb balances it all out.

This is no pity party, but Michael Jackson was covered with some trace of scandal and dysfunction all of his life. I mean, hanging a baby from a balcony is just certifiably crazy and a lot of people were angry but really wanted MJ to get some serious help ASAP. They wanted to believe that he could get "fixed" so he wouldn't just be a talented basketcase.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

I was going back and forth with a group of friends about this, and this is what I wrote:

"The Michael Jackson that many people are mourning has been gone for about 15 years. Nearly everyone has memories of Michael Jackson songs and videos for years before the molestation claims came to light; as someone on NPR said this morning, there's not a Michael Jackson hit that doesn't invoke memories. You remember where you were in your life when "Beat It," "Bad," or "Black or White" was popular. It's probably how our parents felt when John Lennon and Marvin Gaye died. Someone who created the soundtrack to our youth--our wonder years, as it were--is dead, and it reminds us that much more that we're getting older and we're going to die too, regardless of how they actually died.

In other words, the Michael Jackson I and at least a billion other people around the world are mourning is not the one who called his son "Blanket," who was rumored to have purchased the Elephant Man's skeleton, or the one who, as we now know, was addled with painkillers since his brush with death back in the 80s. We are mourning the little kid and the dance machine--in other words, the talented and charismatic entertainer.

It's not my place to determine the veracity of the molestation claims, but I could honestly see them going either way. I'm not a Michael Jackson fan per se; I've never purchased one of his albums, a concert ticket, or a glittery glove. That said, when I heard that he had taken ill and later died, the MJ from "Billie Jean" and the Jackson 5 popped in my head, not the pale, plastic shell of that person who he became in his later years. I wouldn't be surprised if the vast majority of mourners are seeing that person. He's kind of like Elvis that way."

Very well said.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

I was going back and forth with a group of friends about this, and this is what I wrote:

"The Michael Jackson that many people are mourning has been gone for about 15 years. Nearly everyone has memories of Michael Jackson songs and videos for years before the molestation claims came to light; as someone on NPR said this morning, there's not a Michael Jackson hit that doesn't invoke memories. You remember where you were in your life when "Beat It," "Bad," or "Black or White" was popular. It's probably how our parents felt when John Lennon and Marvin Gaye died. Someone who created the soundtrack to our youth--our wonder years, as it were--is dead, and it reminds us that much more that we're getting older and we're going to die too, regardless of how they actually died.

In other words, the Michael Jackson I and at least a billion other people around the world are mourning is not the one who called his son "Blanket," who was rumored to have purchased the Elephant Man's skeleton, or the one who, as we now know, was addled with painkillers since his brush with death back in the 80s. We are mourning the little kid and the dance machine--in other words, the talented and charismatic entertainer.

It's not my place to determine the veracity of the molestation claims, but I could honestly see them going either way. I'm not a Michael Jackson fan per se; I've never purchased one of his albums, a concert ticket, or a glittery glove. That said, when I heard that he had taken ill and later died, the MJ from "Billie Jean" and the Jackson 5 popped in my head, not the pale, plastic shell of that person who he became in his later years. I wouldn't be surprised if the vast majority of mourners are seeing that person. He's kind of like Elvis that way."

It's not even this complex to me. LOL.

[Munchkin03]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

It's not even this complex to me. LOL.

LOL. It's a Friday, it's raining, and most of my work involves going to construction sites. In other words, it's a slow day. All that brain power and energy has to go somewhere!

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

LOL. It's a Friday, it's raining, and most of my work involves going to construction sites. In other words, it's a slow day. All that brain power and energy has to go somewhere!

I mean, it's that complex to some people. Just not to me. LOL.

Your brain power and energy weren't a complete waste.

[KSig RC]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

It's not even this complex to me. LOL.

Yeah - it seems inordinately simple: the guy was one of the most talented human beings to ever live. He was also, most likely, a total nutjob. It is what it is.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by KSig RC

Yeah - it seems inordinately simple: the guy was one of the most talented human beings to ever live. He was also, most likely, a total nutjob. It is what it is.

Yep.

I think the most brilliant minds in every field tend to be nutjobs.

I was watching O'Reilly and Dr. Keith Ablow was giving a breakdown of his plastic surgeries and medications. It made me sad. I think he suffered a cardiac arrest from an unintentional (and possibily intentional) overdose of prescription meds. They say his family had been begging for him to get help but they didn't become really outspoken until AFTER his death. Too late.

[rhoyaltempest]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

I was going back and forth with a group of friends about this, and this is what I wrote:

"The Michael Jackson that many people are mourning has been gone for about 15 years. Nearly everyone has memories of Michael Jackson songs and videos for years before the molestation claims came to light; as someone on NPR said this morning, there's not a Michael Jackson hit that doesn't invoke memories. You remember where you were in your life when "Beat It," "Bad," or "Black or White" was popular. It's probably how our parents felt when John Lennon and Marvin Gaye died. Someone who created the soundtrack to our youth--our wonder years, as it were--is dead, and it reminds us that much more that we're getting older and we're going to die too, regardless of how they actually died.

In other words, the Michael Jackson I and at least a billion other people around the world are mourning is not the one who called his son "Blanket," who was rumored to have purchased the Elephant Man's skeleton, or the one who, as we now know, was addled with painkillers since his brush with death back in the 80s. We are mourning the little kid and the dance machine--in other words, the talented and charismatic entertainer.

It's not my place to determine the veracity of the molestation claims, but I could honestly see them going either way. I'm not a Michael Jackson fan per se; I've never purchased one of his albums, a concert ticket, or a glittery glove. That said, when I heard that he had taken ill and later died, the MJ from "Billie Jean" and the Jackson 5 popped in my head, not the pale, plastic shell of that person who he became in his later years. I wouldn't be surprised if the vast majority of mourners are seeing that person. He's kind of like Elvis that way."

Yup, I feel the same way. I was a HUGE fan growing up. When I hear his music today I always think of the Black MJ...LOL! Not the pale, weird figure that totally destroyed his beautiful face and who obviously had deep psychological issues.

[jojapeach]

Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest

Yup, I feel the same way. I was a HUGE fan growing up. When I hear his music today I always think of the Black MJ...LOL! Not the pale, weird figure that totally destroyed his beautiful face and who obviously had deep psychological issues.

I still remember a television special or interview that revealed that MJ was approached by a woman in an airport while he was in the midst of puberty. She said something along the lines of "What happened to the cute little boy you were?", and MJ obviously interpreted that as "You've grown into an ugly beast." So sad that he saw it that way because I can still look at him from the "Off the Wall" and "Thriller" albums and the same serious crush emotions I had are still real. Even the clips of older Michael with the Jacksons like in '77. How could he not see how genuinely handsome he was as black MJ? Also, I never realized how jaw-droppingly delicious and unbelievable his "Robot" was. WOW!!!

And NO, you are not the only person who never believed those kids aren't Michael's biologicially.

[deepimpact2]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

I was going back and forth with a group of friends about this, and this is what I wrote:

"The Michael Jackson that many people are mourning has been gone for about 15 years. Nearly everyone has memories of Michael Jackson songs and videos for years before the molestation claims came to light; as someone on NPR said this morning, there's not a Michael Jackson hit that doesn't invoke memories. You remember where you were in your life when "Beat It," "Bad," or "Black or White" was popular. It's probably how our parents felt when John Lennon and Marvin Gaye died. Someone who created the soundtrack to our youth--our wonder years, as it were--is dead, and it reminds us that much more that we're getting older and we're going to die too, regardless of how they actually died.

In other words, the Michael Jackson I and at least a billion other people around the world are mourning is not the one who called his son "Blanket," who was rumored to have purchased the Elephant Man's skeleton, or the one who, as we now know, was addled with painkillers since his brush with death back in the 80s. We are mourning the little kid and the dance machine--in other words, the talented and charismatic entertainer.

It's not my place to determine the veracity of the molestation claims, but I could honestly see them going either way. I'm not a Michael Jackson fan per se; I've never purchased one of his albums, a concert ticket, or a glittery glove. That said, when I heard that he had taken ill and later died, the MJ from "Billie Jean" and the Jackson 5 popped in my head, not the pale, plastic shell of that person who he became in his later years. I wouldn't be surprised if the vast majority of mourners are seeing that person. He's kind of like Elvis that way."

I have to slightly disagree. I think the Michael Jackson we are mourning was still there. Even to the end he was a phenomenal entertainer... despite the allegations of molestation and the situation involving his children.

I think it should be noted that some of the strange rumors that were circulating concerning MJ over the years happened to be crazy rumors he put out himself. I also have this feeling that some of the things MJ did that were considered bizarre were just his way of f#$%%^& with everyone because they followed his EVERY move. MJ had more of a sense of humor than people realize.