Do Sororities Really Want You To Try Again?

[Tippiechick]

Original poster --

The honest answer is NO. If they cut you once, they will probably cut you again. You can try. But, you already were extended a bid to a house. You WILL (I REPEAT, YOU WILL) look desperate if you keep rushing. You have already sent the message that you don't want the sisterhood you were matched with. You only want the sisterhood if it suits you. You had a chance to take them off your bid list but did not, obviously.

So what if you didn't feel comfortable there? You spent MAYBE a total of 2-3 hours there, if that? Is such a short amount of time being exposed to a small amount of sisters enough to make a decision to reject their bid?

In your case, you made the decision that you would rather NOT be greek as opposed to giving the girls a chance.

Let's not mince words here. Your own FRIEND tried to tell you to back off. (She told you girls who re-rush look desperate...) Take a hint.

You had a shot at a sisterhood, but rejected it for WHATEVER reason. (I don't really care why.) Perhaps your shot at being in a sorority has passed.