Southern wedding

[SWTXBelle]

I don't know about risque - but you should have good arms (not necessarily Michelle Obama good, but certainly better than mine!) to do the middle-aged sleeveless thing. Given the uncertain nature of a/c (it could be warm, the room might be cold enough to hang meat in) I think the shrug idea is a good one.

[Munchkin03]

Maybe it's just me, but I tend to follow the general dress code of the season rather than the region. For summer, whether I'm here in NYC or down in Florida or Texas, I usually rock a Lilly-like dress, or something different, depending on what the actual wedding venue is. Like, a boat wedding would require something a little more modest because of the wind. Hotels can be cold.