My fraternity needs help with women

[homeslice]

thanks for all of the advice. I think i might have pinpointed the problem in one of your posts. We don't have really good brotherhood anymore, so when we are doing a party or some other shindig, its like we get into clicks, and just say hi, and don't socialize with each other as brothers. thats a huge problem, and i think the girls catch on to this. and for the 33girl that said it looks bad that all we want to do is hang out with just sororities, you didn't even read what i posted...the only girls we do hang out with is "other women not in sororities" i'm not saying i want to be exclusive only to sororities I just want to make a sorority comfortable with hanging out with us on the regular like the other non sorority girls do. Its like they don't even give us a chance to show who we are because they are so far up another fraternies asses

[Blue Skies]

Originally Posted by homeslice

i'm not saying i want to be exclusive only to sororities I just want to make a sorority comfortable with hanging out with us on the regular like the other non sorority girls do. Its like they don't even give us a chance to show who we are because they are so far up another fraternies asses

Umm...you might want to clean up your language, including the profanity. I know that a lot of guys don't care, but for many women, it's a real turn-off. Classiness never goes out of style.

LadyLonghorn has a good point -- it's unwise to focus on just one or two sororities based on looks. Given the ratio of fraternities to sororities at your school, you should really be trying to socialize with all of them. My experience is that if someone is really fun to be around, that person automatically becomes a lot more attractive, anyway.