Injured military veterans and private insurance

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Originally Posted by Munchkin03

My father has combat-related injuries. He has private insurance from his civilian life, but since his illnesses are related to his service, he has access to the VA hospitals which are supposed to treat those specific injuries and illnesses. Sometimes he goes to the VA clinic, but for most of the big ones--including cancer--he has chosen to be treated by his own doctor and pay for it with private insurance, even though the VA would be free. VA clinics are woefully understaffed and often treat many, many people over a large geographic area. If you had the choice between going to a doctor in an office close to your home, and driving at least an hour to go to a crowded clinic to see a doctor (or more likely a physician's assistant) for 15 minutes, which would you pick?

Your dad and mine sound like they are in a very similar position. My dad was in Vietnam and has had combat-related injuries since. He's been pushed around the VA system for years, and still hasn't gotten the treatment he needs for Agent Orange. A few years ago he FINALLY was able to get his back & neck surgery he desperately needed (he was a paratrooper and suffered severe nerve and bone damage). Now he's suffering complications from those surgeries, but everytime he gets an appointment at VA, it either gets cancelled or postponed (and it's always scheduled 6 months or longer away).

My dad does get private insurance from his job, but he doesn't want to use just when he gets "VA benefits" and now he's finally starting to realize that VA is crap.

IDK if this is VA or just veteran's benefits in general, but anyone who has family that are recently retired (or about to be retired) need to make sure that the gov't/VA (i'll have to ask my dad which one it is) acknowledges your marriage, and acknowledges your children (and whether or not they are in college). My mom & dad got married when I was 5....and not until this year has VA acknowledged their marriage. Not only that, but they never acknowledged that I was in college, thus my dad never got the benefits he gets for having children in college. My dad had been hounding them EVERY year I was in college and it wasn't until I graduated that they decided "oh yeah, your daughter was in college, sorry" but they'll only give him 1 year worth of back $ that he deserves.