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03-18-2009, 03:32 PM
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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid
Soooo.....uuuuuhhhh...if he dressed in a suit, it wouldn't help him any huh?
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Not at all. I happen to judge people based on their character. His appears to be seriously lacking some key components. He is illequiped to deal with me.
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03-18-2009, 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted by I.A.S.K.
I did not agree with it and said so.
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LOL
gooniegoogoo to you, too!
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03-18-2009, 08:21 PM
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Originally Posted by I.A.S.K.
Fixed that.
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Lol, quit puttin' words in my mouth!!!
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03-18-2009, 08:22 PM
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Originally Posted by I.A.S.K.
Not at all. I happen to judge people based on their character. His appears to be seriously lacking some key components. He is illequiped to deal with me.
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Hmmm whatever you say partner
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03-18-2009, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted by christiangirl
Lol, quit puttin' words in my mouth!!!
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I was just reading between the lines. lol.
ETA: Dr.Phil..... lol.
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Last edited by I.A.S.K.; 03-18-2009 at 08:40 PM.
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03-19-2009, 01:33 AM
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you all must be afraid to climb up and enjoy the air...what, are you afraid of nosebleeds?
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No, lightning.
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03-19-2009, 04:48 PM
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Let's get back to the lists!!
Add to mine:
no sense of humor
unable to debate
unable to support himself on his own
doesn't like kids
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03-19-2009, 08:49 PM
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Originally Posted by I.A.S.K.
I don't understand what is dishonest or unrealistic about the belief that a person should be judged on their character and merit and not on their attire. I think that is quite realistic.
What is unrealistic is believing that you wont be judged based on what you wear. You will. You'll also probably be judged based on your skin color, gender, hair style etc. at some point. It isnt right, but it happens.
We "kids" do wonder why people react to us the way they do because most of you should have been through the same thing. When you were a kid your parents thought the way you dressed was unappealing, but you liked it. Same thing with kids these days. Nothing new under the sun. The weird thing about it is that you cant teach an old dog new tricks, but it seems that some old dogs cant remember the tricks they were taught when they were young. This is why while new dogs are wondering why they're back at the pound old dogs are wondering why they never left.
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The issue at hand was this young man that apparently lacked the sense to be both quiet and to use what sense a person should have.
However, IASK, people are judged by the first impressions that they give. It's just a matter of fact. People judge you when you first walk in a door whether it is a conscious or unconsious judgement, it just happens. Most people just either learn to put them aside and deal with the matter at hand or they allow their issues to transfer onto others in a covert or uncoverted manner. It just happens.
As far as the dressing style, when I was growing up, since I went to school in the country for the last 5 years of going to school, the kids dressed in a "country" manner. We went by the school dress codes. We dressed like kids in the late 80s and early 90s. As far as me, I dressed according to what I sewed and my parent was never "upset" or had any "issue" with the way that I dressed. Some would call it conserative and some wouldn't. However, being a big girl, I knew what looked good on me and what didn't, I knew what to sew for myself and what not to sew.
However, the issue is about making that first impression a decent one and not one that would have people wondering "WTF" was going on in their head that morning. And the typical impression of someone wearing a "thuggish" look is that they are a "thug," regardless of if they a brainaic or not.
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03-19-2009, 08:52 PM
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I can't do an Oscar Proud head. The square-ish shaped head with dinner plate ears. Can't do it.
I also don't do impatience. In his attitude or body language. If you're always huffing or slouching like a little kid not getting his way, then you're out.
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03-20-2009, 03:18 PM
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She said oscar proud!!! I am TOO THROUGH WITH YOU!!! lol
Then I'd have to counter with: I don't want anyone who is as delusional as Dijonay is regarding Sticky!! DIJONAY!!!! lol
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Easy. You root against Duke, for that program and its head coach are -
and we don't think we're in any way exaggerating here - the epitome of all that is evil.
--Seth Emerson, The Albany Herald
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03-21-2009, 01:05 AM
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Originally Posted by nikki1920
She said oscar proud!!! I am TOO THROUGH WITH YOU!!! lol
Then I'd have to counter with: I don't want anyone who is as delusional as Dijonay is regarding Sticky!! DIJONAY!!!! lol
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STICK-AAAAAAY! 
I have always said my ex had "a head like Oscar Proud and teeth like Wolverine."  I tried so hard to prove that looks didn't matter to me, but they do. Physical attraction has to be there if it's gonna work for me. If that makes me shallow, then fine. At least I'm not "Mrs. Proud."
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03-21-2009, 11:36 AM
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Originally Posted by kinki kopi boi
One of the things I can't stand is a chick who doesn't have a good butt! She needs to have a nice amount of padding for plenty of spankings! If there is nothing to spank, I ain't dating her!
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Wow
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03-28-2009, 11:48 AM
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-Shorter than me (I'm 5'4", so haven't run into this issue yet) or too tall for me. (Most guys I've dated have been around 6 feet, and they have to stoop to kiss me, so for someone my size it's hard to date someone over 6'1" or 6'2".)
-Obviously makes NO attempt to be healthy. I don't have a supermodel body or washboard abs, but you can tell I work out regularly. I expect the same from a potential boyfriend. They don't need extremely defined muscles or even any very visible ones, they just need to be toned enough to look like they are in fact active.
-Bad hygiene.
-Any guy that is wearing make up or hair gel.
-Skinnier than me.
-Clothing that obviously hasn't been washed.
-Clothing that is thug, and overly label-obsessed wardrobes of any kind. I am also biased against extremely preppy dressers, but will consider it if they are able to branch out at times. I prefer guys that know when they need to look sharp but aren't obsessing over their clothing otherwise.
-Extremely overweight. Harsh, but there has to be physical attraction, let's face it.
-Obviously spray tans.
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03-28-2009, 01:47 PM
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Bad teeth
Extremely overweight
Dirty nails
Unkempt hair (whatever he is rocking, it needs to be neat.)
Disgusting feet can be a deal breaker.
:thinking:
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03-28-2009, 08:50 PM
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I like how some women think they have choices and can be so selective...until they slowly reach menopause...then desperation sets in...
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