pulling a girl from recruitment...from another chapter.

[AOII Angel]

Another thought is...one sister rarely gets to decide for the whole group (speaking generally, of course) so just because you don't see her as a good fit for the chapter doesn't mean that other sisters agree with you. You should tell the people that you are friends with very specific instances of why you don't see her as a member of your group. Let them decide if they want to bring it up. If she gets in, she gets in.

[Little32]

If she knows several other sisters very well, wouldn't they have had an opportunity to observe the "personality problems" you have described? Wouldn't that be enough to put questions in their minds about her suitability for the chapter? (Keep in mind, it just might be that your personalities clash, and she may actually get along very well with the other sisters, in which case too bad.)

I agree with KSU and others, the chapter will ultimately make its own decision. If the girl is as bad as you say, then her reputation is going to precede her, and you won't have to say a word.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by Little32

I agree with KSU and others, the chapter will ultimately make its own decision. If the girl is as bad as you say, then her reputation is going to precede her, and you won't have to say a word.

Exactly.

If she is as horrible as you say she is, then trust them to see that (and they in most cases will). If they don't, then you have to respect that.

[alphasamm2007]

Agreed
Just because you see her as that doesnt mean your sisters will and you shuldnt ruin her chances
We had this problem this past rush with MS thinking one girl was rude just because one girl is overly sensitive and we dropped her.
I knew the girl that was dropped and she was lovely but can be sarcastic sometimes.
She should have been given one more night to prove herself
You never know what could happen to your friend over the summer her ways could change and she could prove to be a very important asset to your chapter in later years