Mutual selection?

[OPhiAGinger]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

[COLOR="Magenta]I think OPhiAginger is making it out to seem like just because an HQ doesn't want PNAMs approaching them about AI, that a sorority accepts no one.
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That's not my intention at all, and I apologize if I gave that impression.

I am raising this question because my GLO has recently started considering an AI program and I want to get a better understanding of what has worked (and not) for the groups that have a program like this. It seems like old GC threads may have provided an overly supportive viewpoint that didn't reflect reality, and more recent threads reflect an overly pessimistic attitude.

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

[COLOR="Magenta]If Patti PNAM is dedicated to XYZ and would make a good sister, alumnae will take notice, without her having to approach HQ....These orgs do see women in the comminity that would make good members and extand the invite of membership to them.[/COLOR]

So, again, the answer is to sit and wait for what you want to drop into your lap...? The people I most admire in life are the ones who make things happen. IF my GLO does develop an AI route to membership, those are the kind of people I hope are interested because those are the kind who can add the most to our organization.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by OPhiAGinger

So, again, the answer is to sit and wait for what you want to drop into your lap...? The people I most admire in life are the ones who make things happen. IF my GLO does develop an AI route to membership, those are the kind of people I hope are interested because those are the kind who can add the most to our organization.

No.

Your answer is to live your life, be involved in the community, maybe meet women who are in the sorority.

You can't make it happen.

Even if a sorority takes inquiries from PNAMs, you still can't "make it happen?" Who's to say that just because you can contact them means that your initiative is going to "make it happen?"