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02-10-2009, 01:04 AM
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Whether or not this is murder is VERY debatable.
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That's kinda where I'm stuck. If it was an abortion and abortion is legal, then it's not murder to finish the abortion.
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02-10-2009, 12:24 PM
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That's kinda where I'm stuck. If it was an abortion and abortion is legal, then it's not murder to finish the abortion.
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That's the same mindset I have - if a baby is viable at ? weeks and is wanted, there will be hundreds of thousands of dollars spent to keep that child alive. However, if that same baby isn't wanted, it's treated as biohazard material.
IMHO, it's two standards. This is either a child or not. There are measures taken to save a life or not. There shouldn't be an option of being wanted or not.
I had a friend whose wife delivered at 22 weeks, and the child is fine - now. They went through a year of hundreds of thousands of dollars for his care, and he became a March of Dimes poster boy. So, when I hear of a child being placed in a biohazard bag "coffin", please forgive me for shaking my head. I hope I never do understand that sort of logic.
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02-10-2009, 01:26 PM
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I would think the test would be - was the baby stillborn (never took a breath, heart didn't beat) or was it born and then died?
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02-10-2009, 01:41 PM
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That's the same mindset I have - if a baby is viable at ? weeks and is wanted, there will be hundreds of thousands of dollars spent to keep that child alive. However, if that same baby isn't wanted, it's treated as biohazard material.
IMHO, it's two standards. This is either a child or not. There are measures taken to save a life or not. There shouldn't be an option of being wanted or not.
I had a friend whose wife delivered at 22 weeks, and the child is fine - now. They went through a year of hundreds of thousands of dollars for his care, and he became a March of Dimes poster boy. So, when I hear of a child being placed in a biohazard bag "coffin", please forgive me for shaking my head. I hope I never do understand that sort of logic.
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I have to doubt the 22 week number. That is the limit of our medical ability to save premature babies. I also have to mention that treating a premature baby is up to the parents. If the mother refuses treatment, the baby will not be resuscitated. Does that happen often? No, because those women want their babies. Is it wrong to refuse to give consent to treat a severely premature baby since the outcome is most often very poor? In my opinion it is not. If I had a premature baby at 22 weeks, after seeing what happens to these babies, I would choose to let the baby die. Sometimes what can be done is not the same as what should be done.
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02-10-2009, 03:29 PM
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I have to doubt the 22 week number. That is the limit of our medical ability to save premature babies. I also have to mention that treating a premature baby is up to the parents. If the mother refuses treatment, the baby will not be resuscitated. Does that happen often? No, because those women want their babies. Is it wrong to refuse to give consent to treat a severely premature baby since the outcome is most often very poor? In my opinion it is not. If I had a premature baby at 22 weeks, after seeing what happens to these babies, I would choose to let the baby die. Sometimes what can be done is not the same as what should be done.
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I worked in the NICU at our local children's hopsital. I can recall seeing babies born at 20 weeks who were eventually discharged from the hospital. They went through hell, as did their parents and caregivers, but they did leave.
Maybe I missed it, but did the mother who was having the abortion realize the baby was alive? Has she spoke anymore about this? Can you imagine how she is feeling after all of this?
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02-10-2009, 03:33 PM
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I worked in the NICU at our local children's hopsital. I can recall seeing babies born at 20 weeks who were eventually discharged from the hospital. They went through hell, as did their parents and caregivers, but they did leave.
Maybe I missed it, but did the mother who was having the abortion realize the baby was alive? Has she spoke anymore about this? Can you imagine how she is feeling after all of this?
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I'm sure you have, but they are in the minority of 20 weekers. And the majority have major deficits.
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02-10-2009, 04:30 PM
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I'm sure you have, but they are in the minority of 20 weekers. And the majority have major deficits.
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Yes, it is definitely the minority.
The way I look at all of this, is this baby was alive when it was delivered (supposed to be aborted). Was it going to need a lot of medical intervention? Heck yes. I don't know how any human being could do what was done.
I also want to know why a doctor could be so neglient, and just losing his medical license is not punishment enough in my book.
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02-10-2009, 05:31 PM
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Yes, it is definitely the minority.
The way I look at all of this, is this baby was alive when it was delivered (supposed to be aborted). Was it going to need a lot of medical intervention? Heck yes. I don't know how any human being could do what was done.
I also want to know why a doctor could be so neglient, and just losing his medical license is not punishment enough in my book.
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Oh I agree! The physician who was in charge is responsible for putting this woman in the position of delivering an unwanted pregnancy early with the dilemma of what to do. He should be severely reprimanded. I don't know what the laws say about giving these sorts of medications in the absence of the MD. However, even with an MD there, the baby would not have survived. As a live birth, however, it is not appropriate to dispose of it in the manner described. If there are no laws regarding this, there should be.
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02-10-2009, 03:58 PM
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Can you imagine how she is feeling after all of this?
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If she didn't want the baby in the first place, I'd figure she'd be feeling mission accomplished. Granted, women who have abortions often have a lot of emotions the come up after the procedure, but I'd imagine that she feels the same as if she'd had the abortion. I still don't see the difference. Abort in utero = the baby is a few inches from birth.
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