Is it wrong to Date/Marry Someone for What They Have?

[Japera1920]

MMMMMMM....sometimes there are topics that one just do not want to touch at all but I am goign to lightly tap it.

When involved in a relationship, there are a lot of factors that will play in a up and coming commitment. You have to see if you are ready for a relationship or just play the dating field.

You have to ask what do I want out of the relationship. Do I want a long term boyfriend and girlfriend relationship? Do I want just a physical partner? Etc., etc.

Is it wrong dating a person because of what they have. Yes and no is the answer. Yes, because you would want to be compatible personally and professionally. The reason being say person A works in corporate America making a six figure salary and attends a lot of cultural events. Person B is just a around the way girl. Never interested in cultural events. Not looking to better herself. Comfortable are making minimum wage. (I know it is a extreme example)

It will become a strain on person a to date person b. The reason why I say no because you never know what a person situation is. Maybe the person has hit a hard bump in the road. Maybe that person might be in transition of a change in their life. Just maybe that person has a lot of potential.

When you are dating a person, you have to look to see what they are into in their personal life and professional life. You do not want to date someone that is unequally yoke. JMHO.