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It sounds like your daughter was crosscut. This happens when the chapter your daughter ranks No 1 has her down their bid list and fills up to quota before her name comes up. The chapter your daughter ranks No 2 fills up to quota with PNMs who rank them No 1 before your daughters name comes up. It doesn't mean that either chapter didn't like her. It doesn't happen very often and many schools have bid rules to prevent this from happening.
A suicide bid never increases your chances of receiving a bid although some PNMs believe that it does. The only reason anyone should do it is if you would only join that one chapter and would not join the other chapters under any circumstances.
As far as going through the process again you should be aware that at schools with a competative rush it rarely works out very well. She might be better off to look into opportunities for informal recruitment. At most colleges there are a few chapters that do that.
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