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Old 12-22-2008, 01:23 PM
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Wow.

I am amazed as to how much some of you folks can glean from a couple of posts on the internet from a person you don't know and about a person you don't know. Truly amazing.

The insight on GC is worth every penny, isn't it?
Well, I could be crazy but... from my experience, if a guy actually wants a meaningful relationship, he ASKS A GIRL OUT. He doesn't simply talk to her about sex, and mess around with her a bit (which is what I'm getting from her story), eventually leading her to say, "Yea, it'll probably happen soon," ... and then still not ask her out.

That doesn't seem the least bit sketchy to you?
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Old 12-22-2008, 01:36 PM
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That doesn't seem the least bit sketchy to you?
I will give you the only possibly remotely correct answer given the amount of information any of us has regarding this situation:

"I don't know."

None of us knows the context of the previous relationship, the reputation of the individual(s) involved, or whether any of these people are real.
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Old 12-22-2008, 02:43 PM
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None of us knows the context of the previous relationship, the reputation of the individual(s) involved, or whether any of these people are real.
Exactly. But she posted it on the internet. Why I'm not allowed to present to her my opinion, based on the facts I've been given, is beyond me.
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Old 12-22-2008, 04:31 PM
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Exactly. But she posted it on the internet. Why I'm not allowed to present to her my opinion, based on the facts I've been given, is beyond me.
You're allowed to do anything you want. Whether your opinion is justifiable based upon the 'facts,' is debatable.
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Old 12-22-2008, 04:36 PM
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You're allowed to do anything you want. Whether your opinion is justifiable based upon the 'facts,' is debatable.
You’re suggesting that the "facts" she stated aren’t true. If that’s the case, that’s her problem. I’m only giving my opinion based on what she’s told us, and I don’t think my analysis of the presented situation is completely outlandish and laughable, as you seemed to imply.
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Old 12-22-2008, 06:00 PM
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Wow.

I am amazed as to how much some of you folks can glean from a couple of posts on the internet from a person you don't know and about a person you don't know. Truly amazing.
Happens on GC all the time. Why is this thread any different?

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Why I'm not allowed to present to her my opinion, based on the facts I've been given, is beyond me.
Oh, but you are. The only thing is on greekchat it all depends on who you are. Remember, greekchatters respond to usernames not the posts.

I agree with you 100%.

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You’re suggesting that the "facts" she stated aren’t true. If that’s the case, that’s her problem. I’m only giving my opinion based on what she’s told us, and I don’t think my analysis of the presented situation is completely outlandish and laughable, as you seemed to imply.
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You're allowed to do anything you want. Whether your opinion is justifiable based upon the 'facts,' is debatable.
You're totally making a big deal out of nothing. Who cares if it's debatable, just respond to the OP. Geez.
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Old 12-22-2008, 06:06 PM
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Old 12-22-2008, 06:23 PM
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You’re suggesting that the "facts" she stated aren’t true. If that’s the case, that’s her problem. I’m only giving my opinion based on what she’s told us, and I don’t think my analysis of the presented situation is completely outlandish and laughable, as you seemed to imply.
I debated whether it was getting ridiculous just responding to this crap.. but what the hell. It's GC.

I suggested that the facts could be wrong, but that they absolutely were incomplete -- that you internet relationship experts are reaching completely indefensible positions based on no facts.

For example, she says that she's known this guy since the seventh grade or whatever. From that, you are able to somehow reach the conclusion you did. That's just amazing.

I can understand the personal advice that some are giving, i.e., that virginity is somehow between you and your God and whatnot, or that the decision to give up one's virginity is important. That's fine. Otherwise, you're just being absurd.
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Old 12-23-2008, 02:14 AM
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Isn't this the part where SHEETCAKE runs in with a "Congrats on losing/keeping your virginity" cake?
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Old 12-23-2008, 06:48 AM
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Everybody in this thread is taking themselves way too seriously. Everybody just needs to calm down--CALM DOWN! Take a break. Eat a cookie!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gCXnh74XPBM
I knew what clip was coming before I clicked on it...I love it.

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Isn't this the part where SHEETCAKE runs in with a "Congrats on losing/keeping your virginity" cake?
Do they make those? I mean as long as it doesn't say Adolf Hitler, I guess it's fair game, but still....


And I will donate my whole year's salary to PB's cause of choice if he can go a week without using the word "joker". We've had this talk, boy. http://thesaurus.reference.com/
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Old 12-23-2008, 07:18 AM
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Do they make those? I mean as long as it doesn't say Adolf Hitler, I guess it's fair game, but still....

Close enough
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