Certain values matter for me. Is he honorable/trustworthy? He needs to know the general right from wrong like lying and theft is bad. He needs to not have debt or live on credit. Religious beliefs are a touchy subject because mine tend to fluctuate quite a bit.
I have never had a family that I have disliked before this one. I mean they drive me crazy. Luckily it's a long flight, but if his older brother doesn't call twice a day (minimum it is usually three or four), its a good day. The worst moment yet is when the mother and I had a two hour talk (I stayed at their house for a few days and the boyfriend was at work) about how her four conceptions, pregnancies and c-sections. I wanted to throw up. If she was trying to make sure we waited to have kids, she went the right way.
P.S. MysticCat, you make me laugh. "I believe in one Lord, Jesus Christ the only son of the father..." Nicene Creed. It has been said at every Mass I have ever been to...
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