Death of a Pet

[darling1]

i am so sorry for your loss. i lost my cat 2 years ago and it still saddens me when i think about her.

i think this decision should be a joint one. everyone grieves differently. i think its wonderful that you want to do something around christmas. i would wait until after new years and if she starts to talk more about getting a new pet then maybe you can do something then.

good luck!

ps. shelter pets are the best .

Originally Posted by VAgirl18

Early this morning, our family dog passed away in my mom's arms. He was 14 and just like another family member. My mom hasn't stopped crying and my dad is pretty choked up too.

My dad wanted to go get another Pomeranian right away, but I told him that it was way too soon, especially when Scruffy had just died this morning. When my mom called this morning she asked me to never get a dog or a cat so that I don't have to go through this. I've been advised from others that getting another pet may be one of the only ways to fill the void. I think that my dad and I are going to get her a white, fluffy dog like she wanted a few years ago.

My questions are... is Christmas a long enough time to grieve? Should we even bring this dog in as a surprise or consult my mom who will probably initially say no, but be accepting later?

Thanks for all of your help in advance. My mom has been blaming herself for all of this and it was in no way her fault at all. It was just his time to go.