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1) Keep in mind that a chapter cannot extend a bid to every PNM that each active is in love with. It's a numbers thing and you can't take it personally. If a chapter has 100 actives and every one has a favorite PNM, then unless quota is 100 (which is highly doubtful) someone's fav isn't going to get a bid.
2) Keep in mind that just because others don't click with your BFF since Kindergarten doesn't mean they don't like you. You may think she's the greatest thing in the world, but others might not see it. It's hard but try not to take it personally. Would you really want her to receive a bid to an org where only one person (you) likes her and wants her? Would she be happy down the road if no one ever likes her? What's more important, your happiness or your friend's?
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