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Old 10-22-2008, 03:26 AM
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Whenever we have visits now or when we did Michigan to Oregon that was something we brought up. My first visit there I was on "date behavior" and I held everything for about a week before we had a yell/cry fest for hours. There is no point if you are on date behavior (Do you mind if I steal that term? I love it) because you can't grow together as a couple. How is your significant other supposed to know what makes you happy?

Also, don't worry about having outside activities. Yes, they may make it harder to see or talk to your significant other, but if you don't have them you will sit around bored and depressed. You go insane pretty quickly waiting for them to get out of class/work.

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Old 10-22-2008, 10:26 AM
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Whenever we have visits now or when we did Michigan to Oregon that was something we brought up. My first visit there I was on "date behavior" and I held everything for about a week before we had a yell/cry fest for hours. There is no point if you are on date behavior (Do you mind if I steal that term? I love it) because you can't grow together as a couple. How is your significant other supposed to know what makes you happy?

Also, don't worry about having outside activities. Yes, they may make it harder to see or talk to your significant other, but if you don't have them you will sit around bored and depressed. You go insane pretty quickly waiting for them to get out of class/work.
My boyfriend and I used to fight on the phone whenever there were enough hurt feelings for a fight.

One time we had a fight on the phone when he was in Pittsburgh (his attitude was shitty as hell that day).

I figure had we not been long distance, we would have fought anyway. Once we decided to move in together we had about three fights over the phone right away. I like to think we were getting it out before our first month of living together so it would be nice and neither of us would feel the need to break the lease.
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