Advice, please!

[FSUZeta]

how about continue a while longer with this recruitment? by doing so, you would have given yourself every chance to find a home this fall. folks opinions of certain sororities have changed 180 degrees during the recruitment process. your's might too.

i know a girl who rushed this fall-she had her sights set on certain houses. trust me when i say that she would not have been happy with any of them, had they chosen to give her a bid-she just would not have fit in. those sororities saw that, and they did not invite her back. now the unfortunate thing is that, some of the sororities that she liked and probably would have fit in perfectly with, she dropped, because she thought things were going well with her top choices. she ended up with no bid. now that she has seen members out and about, she realizes that as hard as it is to take, the sororities knew what they were doing and she realizes that she would have been miserable as a member of her former top choices. she now wishes that she had given one more chance to some of ones that had shown a real interest in her, and that she liked, but did not L O V E. who knows what might have been?

If you do stay in recruitment, if you are still not feeling the love after prefs, then don't sign a bid card. you do not have to fill out the bid card-you can drop out. by not signing a bid card, you would be eligible for spring recruitment.