Rush: lessons learned

[33girl]

Originally Posted by scrapcat

- Don't listen to how your rush group ranks/discusses the houses. But do pay attention if everyone around seems to like the same house. Remember if everyone puts house 'A' on their list the odds get smaller...

True that - but on the other hand, if you really love house A regardless of tent talk and you feel as though you've made connections there, don't dismiss them because the competition is more intense. If you really want it, you have to go for it!

[Kansas City]

Originally Posted by 33girl

True that - but on the other hand, if you really love house A regardless of tent talk and you feel as though you've made connections there, don't dismiss them because the competition is more intense. If you really want it, you have to go for it!

Agreed. Just because lots of PNMs want house 'A' doesn't mean that house 'A' doesn't want you. PNMs need to select the house they want and hope to be invited back to those houses. Competition doesn't mean anything when real relationships are being formed.