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Originally Posted by confused_girl
Your situation sounds like what I went through with the sorority I joined. I have since left them, and there is a new sorority on campus. Sadly however, it appears as though I'll never be able to join the new one (which i like so much better than the one I joined when it was the only option on campus). I regret not waiting a bit before pledging... seeing as the next year we got the new sorority.
I officially turned in my paperwork and disolved my membership with the sorority. I dont know if this changes the rules as to if i can join another one, but i dont believe it does. I dont think that is fair. I was decieved into believing that the sorority i was joining was this amazing organization, and i'm sure the national part of it is, but the girls i joined were horrible. I feel almost punished by the fact that now that I have left them, I'll never be allowed to have a sisterhood with a better group. it's not as thought I left sorority A so i could join sorority B... i've just recenty been realizing that sorority B is much better.
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It's a good thing you are not allowed to join another NPC. If you are willing to drop an organization after taking an oath to uphold its principles-what's to say Sorority B would make you stick around?
Because I believe in treating all of my Panhellenic sisters with respect-even if you COULD join another organization and it happened to be mine, I would be VERY AGAINST it. Every organization has their bad apples but, you make it sound as though you just joined Sorority A because "hey, they were the only ones on campus-and I wanted to wear letters"...if there was no actual HAZING going on-and you dropped them, knowing you would also be dropping the NATIONAL or INTERNATIONAL headquarters-then you don't deserve membership in ANY NPC.
Really?
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