Regrets

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by tornup

Thats what in my heart I want to do because I know that we have amazing potential to be a great chapter I just worry that the few girls (were a very small chapter) who run the E-Board will NOT be open to change and it will just cause me to be disliked by the chapter as a whole. Its hard for me to explain the violations/problems my chapter has been dealing with because I dont want to be to identifying. But trust me when i say its not small violations against the constituion its things that could and probably would get us a serious look from nationals if not get are charter pulled...

Im just incredibly frustrated and even in wanting to try and change it i have no idea where to start. . .

Ask yourself which is more important:

Do I want to go along with things, not rock the boat, and have people like me?

OR

"Do I want to help change things so that my chapter will still be around down the road?"

At the end of the day the decision is up to you. However, quitting a sorority is a pretty final step and I think you should really think hard about it because it is something you may regret. In the grand scheme of things, your collegiate chapter experience is a very short time compared to the years you will spend as an alumna. I always hate to see girls quit over frustration with their collegiate chapter and regret it because they lose out on the lifetime experiences (because they aren't a member anymore).