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[SOPi_Jawbreaker]

Originally Posted by Kansas City

This might be a silly suggestion but when you are showered with this extra (and sometimes unwanted) attention, why don't you try inviting two of your pledge sisters along? Make it a group thing always inviting different pledge sisters each time. This could help you to bond with more pledge and active sisters and could turn you into the catalyst (matchmaker?) for forming bonds between your sisters. There is no reasen why this extra attention displayed toward you couldn't be redirected toward others with your help.

RIF

Originally Posted by RisingSun

I did everything I could to be kind to the house sisters and also include my new pledge sisters, but I'm definitely getting a lot of extra attention.

I'm doing every single thing I can to make that not happen, but the sisters coming up to me seem to be important at the house and I'm sooo confused how to even act at this point. I find myself making a huge effort to include a few pledges more deeply in the visits when the older sisters start talking with me, but the convo always seems to turn around to something to do with me.