Sensitive question

Are you sure these girls are paying attention to you for the right reasons?

If you're happy where you're at and really feel that this sorority is the one for you, then keep doing what you're doing. It's important to have a pledge class united, but honestly? Your pledge period is only for a few weeks. Your sisterhood lasts a lifetime.

When I was a collegian, I found myself hanging out more with the older girls because we had similar interests. Same when I became an alum -- I still hung out and partied with the older girls. When you've got a huge group of girls, there's bound to be drama. It's up to you to decide whether or not it's even worth it to be worrying about this.

Be active in your pledgeship and be kind to all the sisters. If they still don't like you, that's their problem. Remember...no one can make you feel inferior without your consent.