What happened?

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You will never know "what went wrong" at your top choices- and so people here will be even more at a loss to figure it out. Membership selection is never discussed publicly- which is for the better of the process at large, even though it can be difficult for individual candidates who do not get what they were hoping for.

Were you rushing at a competitive campus? If so, you could be an ideal candidate but just rushing against a huge field of others who are also very highly qualified. Getting cut during the various rounds is not necessarily a strike against you personally. I know that does not change the outcome, but hopefully it gives some comfort.

I will say this- if you really and truly are not happy with those "bottom two" houses- then do yourself and those sororities a favor and just drop. I do not know your reasons for calling them "bottom" houses- but whatever they are, please don't go there and take the place of someone who wants to be there just in the interests of going Greek at all costs.

From your post I get the sense recruitment is still ongoing for you. Keep your chin up and aim for any options you have left that appeal to you. I hope this helps and good luck.