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Originally Posted by Just interested
Alright, I am going to through this out for discussion. What if you know someone is going elsewhere and absolutely has no interest in your group.and you don't want your girls to waste their time? Do you A. write the rec and say nothing B write the rec but tell them C No Rec them to force a cut
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Assuming: 1) The PNM has asked you for a rec even though she's not interested in your GLO, though I wonder why she'd even find a rec for a chapter she knows she doesn't want. 2) There is nothing actually
wrong or
bad about the PNM other than she's not interested.
No Recs should be used for strong, legit, verifiable concerns IMO. If it were me, I'd write a really basic Rec without any extra info. This way you can honestly tell the PNM you have in fact written one for her.
Then I'd call/email an Advisor and let her know that this girl isn't interested at all, but of course hope she'll change her mind during the Recruitment process. Then it's up to the Advisor on how to pursue it. If the actives love her, they should be allowed to invite the girl back and hopefully convince her it's a great place to be. If the PNM is "on the bubble" when it comes to invites/cuts, this tidbit of info might help them make a decision.
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