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Which is it - they can feel offended, or not? Feeling offended is just that - a feeling. Saying they shouldn't be offended is indeed telling them how to feel. And it's only a tecnicality because you are trying to parse this a particular way. So if you don't wish to infringe on their personal liberties, don't tell them how to feel, or that their feelings are not justified. Disagree with the premise all you want - share that you personally do not feel offended. But don't try to dictate the appropriate response for others.
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Last edited by SWTXBelle; 07-07-2008 at 09:31 PM.
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