Advice for a fellow Sister (very long!)

While I love my chapter sisters dearly and see them very often, over the years since becoming alum I've grown closer with sisters who weren't from my area. My sisterhood circle got 10x bigger when I became an alum.

If you truly love your sorority, let go of the past and get involved with an alum chapter. It's likely these sisters don't know anything about your collegiate experience, so there's no need to bring in that baggage. You're no good to your sorority and your sorority is no good to you if you choose to continue to sit in that shit.

Like that old saying goes, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by OTW

While I love my chapter sisters dearly and see them very often, over the years since becoming alum I've grown closer with sisters who weren't from my area. My sisterhood circle got 10x bigger when I became an alum.

Same here. As far as I'm concerned, that's how it usually is when you're in national GLOs and are honoring a lifetime commitment. Especially if you relocate.

[AOII Angel]

It doesn't sound like you want advice as much as you want validation. Sorry your sisters didn't support you when you were depressed. Just remember that college girls aren't trained psychologists and may not know how to handle such information. If they were really as cruel to you as you make it sound, then forget your chapter and make a fresh start with more mature women in your alumnae chapter. I suspect, however, that your version of the story is tainted by a lot of hurt feelings. Maybe they didn't mean things the way you took them. Maybe you came off as someone who didn't want to participate. In the end, it's water under the bridge. If you keep harping forever about this experience, you'll miss out on opportunities to really experience lifelong sisterhood with ABC.