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Well alpha gam technically doesnt have bigs and little even though my chapter decided to do them any way in addition to sis moms, but bigs are kinda more important to us. My sis mom was not that bad I never really talked to her and we still don't really talk as much as we should. We are very different personality wise. She is kinda socially awkward, a perfectionist, but super sweet. I am very laid back and go with the flow. We tried to hang out but there was always those awkward silent moments. So now when we talk it is either about an alpha gam issue, to take a family picture or just the "hey how are you" but thats it. Now my big right before reveal she was always taking me out and it was great. Like two weeks after reveal we still kinda hung out everyday. But during the summer I would say we spoke once on the phone. Since she was a Rho Gam in the fall we didn't talk much. For the rest of the semester we would hug and have small talk but we never would hung out. It was the same way at the beginning of the spring. She decided that she was going to take another little and things changed. She started stopping by my place all the time we started hanging out a lot. Then when reveal came she bought me and my new twin family shirts. Now the three of us hang out all the time. I am not sure what happened during that quite period we had but thing are good now.
As for me as a big I have two little, one that I adopted. The adopted one got a big who was a senior who had a demanding job and was applying to grad school, she honestly didn't have time for the sorority let alone a little. So I decided to adopt her because she was my sis daughter anyway. I love my littles I try to hang out with them as much as I can.
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