I need serious advice on my relationship

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by MysticCat

Huh? She started the thread almost 3 months ago; they moved in together two weeks ago.

She sought advice but it probably didn't matter what was said in this thread. I'm not saying the advice in this thread should matter but I also am not an advice seeker when it comes to key life decisions, especially with strangers on the 'net.

Anywhoooo, she was probably going to do it anyway.

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

She sought advice but it probably didn't matter what was said in this thread.

Maybe so -- that's different, though, from stating (assuming, really) that she knew she was going to move in with the bf before she started the thread.

[Munchkin03]

Originally Posted by MysticCat

Maybe so -- that's different, though, from stating (assuming, really) that she knew she was going to move in with the bf before she started the thread.

Pretty much. I've never seen anyone able to talk anyone, especially a young woman, out of cohabiting. If she was "considering" it, she was halfway there.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by MysticCat

Maybe so -- that's different, though, from stating (assuming, really) that she knew she was going to move in with the bf before she started the thread.

Semantics. PB and I are saying the same thing.