I need serious advice on my relationship

[BigRedBeta]

Originally Posted by Gretchen W

Thanks you guys. I read all of your comments and they were great! I've already moved in with my bf. We've been living together for 2 weeks now. I hope everything goes like we want it to. His roommate seems to be o.k. with it. The only thing I worry about is his roommate's room is right next to ours. I just hope the sound of us having sex isn't bothering him.

Never had a gf move in with a roommate, but I've been roommates with people who have loud sex (to quote one of my friends about buddy's girlfriend - "She screams like she's on fire") I'd say your best bet is to let your boyfriend handle the subject with his friend, and try to be a little courteous if you know that the roommate has something big going on the next day...

[Gretchen W]

Originally Posted by BigRedBeta

Never had a gf move in with a roommate, but I've been roommates with people who have loud sex (to quote one of my friends about buddy's girlfriend - "She screams like she's on fire") I'd say your best bet is to let your boyfriend handle the subject with his friend, and try to be a little courteous if you know that the roommate has something big going on the next day...

Yeah. I usually don't see his roommate that much. I guess he hangs out late when he's off work. He works midnights when he is at work, so I was just thinking that the loud sex may bother him in the morning. Sometimes we do it in the morning. So far my bf hasn't said anything to me about it bothering him.