Ok, here's my confession:
I really don't like one of my sisters-in-law. She's a roughshod, ghetto, hood chick that totally doesn't deserve my brother. She's never at home with him and my nephew and is always in the streets with her "friends". She never cooks, cleans or even shares household expenses and child care duties. My brother does EVERYTHING, to paying ALL of the bills, to making dinner, cleaning the house, helping my nephew with his activities and schoolwork! I'd understand if she had a high powered job but she gets off work at 1pm everyday and has summers off. She seems like nothing but a glorified roommate that lives in his house for free.
When we were in college (my brother and I were only a year apart in school), I always hoped that he would marry a really cute, sweet sista that I could hang out and go shopping with (perhaps even a soror since he's in a particular fraternity lol). However, I got stuck with HER! Six months after he proposed, she had done nothing to plan her wedding, so my brother had to do it! Back then, I wondered "if he has to plan his own wedding by himself, what will happen in the marriage?" I guess it was a huge sign...
Though I don't co-sign adultery or promote divorce and he would never leave her, I secretly hope that my SIL leaves my brother (my family heard a rumor that she was thinking of it) and nephew, he meets a completely sweet, devoted wonderful woman and marries her. In my fantasy she becomes a model stepmom to my nephew and the devoted, doting wife to my brother and fulfills his wish of having more children by having a child. And in the end, my SIL gets out of having to be the mom she was supposed to be and gladly pays my brother child support.