One-third of married moms have cheated!

[preciousjeni]

Originally Posted by RU OX Alum

That's horrible. I hope you found someone else who could appreciate you.

I agree 100%!! Ladies, why don't we pay attention to how men treat us AT ALL TIMES rather than convincing ourselves that we can handle neglect/abuse of any kind just as long as our men will stay with us. I was fortunate not to end up with any of the knuckleheads I use to talk to. Can't say the same for a lot of us out there.

ETA:

ABUSE:

Originally Posted by SexySockPuppet

Mine actually said he couldn't think of me "that way" after Having childen.

If we don't see it as such, we're kidding ourselves.

[RU OX Alum]

Originally Posted by preciousjeni

I agree 100%!! Ladies, why don't we pay attention to how men treat us AT ALL TIMES rather than convincing ourselves that we can handle neglect/abuse of any kind just as long as our men will stay with us. I was fortunate not to end up with any of the knuckleheads I use to talk to. Can't say the same for a lot of us out there.

ETA:

ABUSE:

If we don't see it as such, we're kidding ourselves.

yeah and since she said she's a regular i'm worried now

[RU OX Alum]

Originally Posted by SexySockPuppet

I'm not happy with the situation, but am not currently in a position to do much. However - I do not plan to live the rest of my life like this. Things become complicated when children are in the mix. So I'm doing the best I can, and hoping for better days ahead.

...this scares me

take the kids and get out now!

PM me if you want

[Educatingblue]

Originally Posted by RU OX Alum

...this scares me

take the kids and get out now!

PM me if you want

She's in a bad situation, but what about counseling? This is a very personal issue, but I am curious to know if he doesn't think of her that way because he views her as a mommy and not "sexy" per se or if he is just not attracted anymore. There are lot of married and single people who tone it down with their spouse/partner because they're drained at the end of the day...

I agree with proceeding with caution when kids are involved, but at the same time, she has to do what is best for her.

[AGDee]

Originally Posted by SexySockPuppet

I'm not happy with the situation, but am not currently in a position to do much. However - I do not plan to live the rest of my life like this. Things become complicated when children are in the mix. So I'm doing the best I can, and hoping for better days ahead.

My ex-husband was very similar. I didn't react by cheating, but eventually, resentment grew and I was in a position to leave. I do hope you find your own happiness some day. I wanted to PM you but you don't accept them so just know that there are others who have been there and life *can* be better than that.

[Rudey]

"If you beat her, she won't cheat on you"