What are my chances??

[texas*princess]

^^^ if you are telling her to be "open-minded" then why do you follow that comment with another giving her your own feelings about a specific chapter?

Just wondering.... it just seemed contradictory.

[violetpretty]

Originally Posted by texas*princess

^^^ if you are telling her to be "open-minded" then why do you follow that comment with another giving her your own feelings about a specific chapter?

Just wondering.... it just seemed contradictory.

Also, she didn't say anything negative about the chapter, she just said that it wasn't a fit for HER. Very few people would be a good fit at ALL of the chapters on a given campus.

[honeychile]

I think texas*princess, like most GCers, would have preferred the usage of "ABC" or "XYZ" - especially when posting to someone not even attending the school in question yet.

[violetpretty]

I guess. I would be more offended though if the comment was "they are elitist snooty bitches" or "they are ugly and fat" or "they are slutty" or "they are too goody goody for me". Her comment gives no inkling as to what kind of reputation ADPi at App State has or why she wouldn't fit. There are several chapters at my alma mater that I could say "wouldn't be a fit" for me, but there are different reasons for different chapters.