Is it still cheating?

[IlovemyAKA]

I would consider it cheating. Why does he have those? I mean really, what's the purpose? Obiviously the friend wants him if she's sending those types of pics, & he's condoning her actions by not only allowing them, but keeping the pics. I would say more, but I'm running late for church. I just pop on for a sec waiting for my slooooow roommate.

[DaemonSeid]

Originally Posted by IlovemyAKA

I would consider it cheating. Why does he have those? I mean really, what's the purpose? Obiviously the friend wants him if she's sending those types of pics, & he's condoning her actions by not only allowing them, but keeping the pics. I would say more, but I'm running late for church. I just pop on for a sec waiting for my slooooow roommate.

how would you deal with it if you caught him?

[IlovemyAKA]

I'm with Sunshine in a sense. I'd have to get more info. I wouldn't confront her because there'd be no point. Her intentions are clear, and she has no commitment to me anyway. However, he does.

He shouldn't have kept the pics in the first place. When she sent them, he should have set boundaries then letting her know that it was inappropriate. Since he did not, she'll just try to take it a step further the next time.

I would expect him to set some boundaries with this chick, and in all honesty, I wouldn't care to have her hanging around too much because she wants what I have. If he cannot put her in her place, then I take that to mean that he likes her attention and advances. In that case, he has made it clear that he cares more for her affections than peace in our relationship. Hence, I'm out. Any chick who can't respect your relationship is not really your friend. She wants more. Any chick who would try to make a man hers while he's with another isn't really the type you want to settle down with either.

[KSUViolet06]

I wouldn't call it cheating but it's suspicious. I would defintely need to confront him.

After said confrontation I probably would be minus a boyfriend because this type of behavior is not cool.

[Jimmy Choo]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

I wouldn't call it cheating but it's suspicious. I would defintely need to confront him.

After said confrontation I probably would be minus a boyfriend because this type of behavior is not cool.

I agree. And if I managed to still have said boyfriend after the confrentation was over you can bet I'd be so far up his ass for the next few months. He's got to re-earn my trust.

[texas*princess]

Originally Posted by IlovemyAKA

I would consider it cheating. Why does he have those? I mean really, what's the purpose? Obiviously the friend wants him if she's sending those types of pics, & he's condoning her actions by not only allowing them, but keeping the pics. I would say more, but I'm running late for church. I just pop on for a sec waiting for my slooooow roommate.

I second that.

And I'd say a confrontation is in order.