muslim and wanting to rush

[Benzgirl]

It will entirely depend on the campus that you attend. Many chapters on less-conservative campuses wouldn't think twice about your beliefs or your wearing hijab. You might have a tougher time at a competitive school, such as those in the SEC. I would say if you are attending school in the Northeast, it won't make a difference.

If you do wear hijab through recruitment, I would recommend wearing one that is memorable instead of one that is white (if your beliefs allow). I remember the first time that I saw Benazir Bhutto wearing hijab made from a Hermes scarf. I wanted to wear one too. I thought she looked so chic and elegant.

[BandGinterest]

Originally Posted by Benzgirl

It will entirely depend on the campus that you attend. Many chapters on less-conservative campuses wouldn't think twice about your beliefs or your wearing hijab. You might have a tougher time at a competitive school, such as those in the SEC. I would say if you are attending school in the Northeast, it won't make a difference.

If you do wear hijab through recruitment, I would recommend wearing one that is memorable instead of one that is white (if your beliefs allow). I remember the first time that I saw Benazir Bhutto wearing hijab made from a Hermes scarf. I wanted to wear one too. I thought she looked so chic and elegant.

thanks for the reply! i wont name my school but i will say i attend university in the state of texas. and thanks for the tip most of my scarfs are really colorful . hehe i wanted the Hermes one too when i saw it lol. how do i know if my school is competitive or not? is there a way to find out without giving away my school?

[FSUZeta]

just wanted to point out that the country club social chair cannot write you a recommendation unless she is a sorority member. i am not familiar with delta gamma's rules, but perhaps her daughter can write one for you-some sororities allow their collegiate members to do so. only initiated members of sororities may write a recommendation to their sorority. they may not write a recommendation to another sorority.

also wanted to point out that many of the npc sororities were founded on christian principles, a few are nonsecterian and a few on jewish principles. i don't know if that would conflict with or compromise your beliefs.

all 26 of the npc sororities have national websites. you might want to check out the websites of the ones on your campus to learn a little more about what beliefs they were founded on.

[lindz0722]

Originally Posted by FSUZeta

just wanted to point out that the country club social chair cannot write you a recommendation unless she is a sorority member. i am not familiar with delta gamma's rules, but perhaps her daughter can write one for you-some sororities allow their collegiate members to do so.

Delta Gamma does allow this, so definitely ask her to put you in contact with her daughter if you're interested in getting a recommendation from her!

[KSUViolet06]

As far as your state goes, UT-Austin is an example of a competitive recruitment. There are high numbers (I think there were like 800 or more) of girls participating (99% of them are freshmen), with most girls having recs for all sororities, high GPAs, and tons of extracurricular activities.

I've heard that SMU and A&M are also pretty competitive. I'm not sure about others since I'm not from there. There are some Texan GCers who know alot more about Texas recruitments than I do.

I'd read as much of this thread in the sorority recruitment forum as you can, it has some great\ info in it to get you started:

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=54403

[ComradesTrue]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

As far as your state goes, UT-Austin is an example of a competitive recruitment. There are high numbers (I think there were like 800 or more) of girls participating (99% of them are freshmen), with most girls having recs for all sororities, high GPAs, and tons of extracurricular activities.

I've heard that SMU and A&M are also pretty competitive. I'm not sure about others since I'm not from there. There are some Texan GCers who know alot more about Texas recruitments than I do.

Don't forget Baylor, TCU and Texas Tech. All have competitive recruitments as well.

[Educatingblue]

I know you said you were interested in NPC, but I have never seen any Muslim women in those organizations, but you could pave the way for others. I know every NPHC has muslims and I have seen several wearing hijab at events.

[cuteASAbug]

Since I don't know what school you're at, I just have to ask if it's a party school. The reason I'm asking is because I have several Muslim friends and know from them that drinking goes against your religious beliefs. If you're at a party school, it's definitely something to consider, because would you be happy being in a social scene which is surrounded by something you can't partake in? Of course, if your school isn't a party school and there is more to social life there aside from drinking, then I say go for it.

[BandGinterest]

Originally Posted by cuteASAbug

Since I don't know what school you're at, I just have to ask if it's a party school. The reason I'm asking is because I have several Muslim friends and know from them that drinking goes against your religious beliefs. If you're at a party school, it's definitely something to consider, because would you be happy being in a social scene which is surrounded by something you can't partake in? Of course, if your school isn't a party school and there is more to social life there aside from drinking, then I say go for it.

i definetly dont think our school is a party school lol. but yes you are correct we dont drink or party and i am ok with that. if i was not comfortable being in a social scene that is surrounded by something i couldn't partake in i wouldnt even come to college in the first place lol. i feel like socially if i am involved within my chapter in the many other events they provide other than parties and drinking i can definetly be happy... and hey at least they know they will have a designated driver lol

[BandGinterest]

Originally Posted by Educatingblue

I know you said you were interested in NPC, but I have never seen any Muslim women in those organizations, but you could pave the way for others. I know every NPHC has muslims and I have seen several wearing hijab at events.

I dont personally know of any in NPC either. alot of my family is NPHC so i have occasionally seen muslims in those orgs. as well as Latino greek organizations. Growing up being the only black muslim (im actually dark- skinned latina) in my private school, horseback riding lessons, etc. i am used to it.

[Thetagirl218]

Originally Posted by Blondie93

Don't forget Baylor, TCU and Texas Tech. All have competitive recruitments as well.

Ditto on this....I know several people who have gone through recruitment in Texas, and Recs are a must...Did someone already mention Texas A &M? I have heard they are very competitive also.

[NinjaPoodle]

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[AOII Angel]

I hate to be the lone voice of dissent...well not dissent but maybe "devil's advocate." First to the OP, I wish you the best of luck with your recruitment process. I just want you to be prepared when you go through that it may not be a pretty process for you. I'm from the south, and I know that there are FEW women who wear a hijab in the south. Apart from religious differences which frequently are an issue in the south, you'll just plain look different. I don't want anyone to confuse me with someone who agrees with this way of thought, but I don't want you going in thinking it won't be an issue. Be prepared to be asked rude things about your religion and dress...realize that it is more for ignorance than racism (I can't think of a more appropriate word right now.) Be prepared to tell them how you could be an asset to their chapter and how your beliefs would not prevent you from participating with Christian or Jewish based rituals (I want you to know that it shouldn't...no NPC group discriminates based on religion, and you don't have to be a Christian or Jew to understand or appreciate our rituals. The problem is...your relying on young girls to administer this ruling at a local level. Anyone that has participated in or advised during recruitment knows that collegians have their own way of choosing members that does not necessarily reflect on the thoughts of the (inter)national organization or the chapter's advisors.