Recruitment annoyance

[33girl]

Originally Posted by nittanyalum

Yes, there is. Tell her to stop coming to RECRUITMENT events. They are for PNMs. If she has already declined a bid (or several - ???) she is no longer a "P" anything, she shouldn't be coming around to rush events where you want to focus your time and attention on women who have serious interest in your house. Didn't this already get covered in another thread with you?

Yes it did. And I'll say again what I said there. DO NOT HAVE OPEN COB EVENTS. THEY SHOULD BE INVITE ONLY. Do not post them on your website, facebook, myspace or any other place where randoms can find out about them, and don't allow anyone in who has not been invited!

If you are being encouraged to have open COB events by an advisor, regional/national rush chair or anyone else higher up, tell them exactly what you've told us...I wager they'll tell you to stop. What's happening now is, plain and simple, making your chapter look ridiculous.