More food for thought... just like the bid matching system isn't perfect, nor is COR. Errors happen within the process, from selection errors to cell phone mishaps to plain ol'miscommunication between members.
Whatever has happened... IF she really wants this group and this group only... advise her to continue trying during the next formal recruitment period. BUT also advise her to keep an open mind about the other groups. I might be wrong but your name "MIGHT" indicate that your daughter is attending a HUGE greek system school so there COULD very well be more than one group that your daughter can find a home with. So encourage her to get to know other girls in her classes and groups, attend sporting events/other social gatherings, and make herself known on campus in a POSITIVE light.
Hope that my two cents help/comfort/encourage.
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"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.
Each day has enough trouble of its own!" ~Matthew 6:34
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