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Old 03-02-2008, 03:44 PM
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It doesn't matter how you spell it, it's offensive.
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Old 03-02-2008, 03:56 PM
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Not offensive. From my experiences, many collegiate women, especially at competitive SEC and other types, do not find it offensive at all.
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Old 03-02-2008, 04:01 PM
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It is offensive, but I also find pimps and hoes parties, or any variation where women are hoes (tennis, golf, etc.) offensive. I guess my self esteem and self worth are too high to want people to think I sell myself for money and have a purpose on earth to be ogled and objectified.
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Old 03-02-2008, 04:23 PM
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In my opinion, any word that puts down women as a gender is offensive.

Would you want someone to call your mom, baby sister or anyone else you care about a "sorostitute" or any similar word?

I do not understand calling other women, especially in jest, a "ho", " whore", "bitch", etc. I know that it's become relatively common nomenclature among teens and 20-somethings, but it's not something that you can use in polite company or in the general public; ie. classes, at work, out loud at a restaurant or store, etc.

Women as a whole have worked too hard to earn equality - politically (the right to vote, own land), economically (equality in lending, paychecks), in careers (glass ceiling), education (hence the founding of many sororities and women's fraternities), healthcare (did you know that most FDA testing and general diagnostics are performed without gender specification?) - than to embarass and degrade each other, or accept the same from men.

It may be "cool" to use such terminology or allow others to lable you as such, but think about what it's really doing. It's debasing you to the level of nothing more than a sexual object. There isn't anything cool or funny about that. And if you think that words are just words, remember that the pen is mightier than the sword.
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Old 03-02-2008, 04:25 PM
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It is offensive, but I also find pimps and hoes parties, or any variation where women are hoes (tennis, golf, etc.) offensive.
I agree with this too!
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Old 03-02-2008, 04:15 PM
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Not offensive. From my experiences, many collegiate women, especially at competitive SEC and other types, do not find it offensive at all.
Then I feel sorry for those women and their lack of sense of self-worth. I really do. And I question the values the men are being raised with if they think it's ok too.
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Old 03-02-2008, 06:43 PM
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Then I feel sorry for those women and their lack of sense of self-worth. I really do.
Mmmm, it's really the opposite. It's an adjective. If one is deemed a sorostitute, more often because of her image, rather than her conduct.

Women who are labeled as such are the popular girls. They are decked out in the big sunglasses, the designer jeans & bags, cute shoes, and so forth. These are the girls who put out an image of class. They are fun to be around and are popular. Most importantly, they exude confidence.

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Old 03-02-2008, 06:44 PM
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Mmmm, it's really the opposite.

Women who are labeled as such are the popular girls. They are decked out in the big sunglasses, the designer jeans & bags, cute shoes, and so forth. These are the girls who put out an image of class. They are fun to be around and are popular. Most importantly, they exude confidence.
Oh, I wish you hadn't posted this.
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Old 03-02-2008, 06:47 PM
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Oh, I wish you hadn't posted this.
But it's the truth!!
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Old 03-02-2008, 07:00 PM
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Mmmm, it's really the opposite. It's an adjective. If one is deemed a sorostitute, more often because of her image, rather than her conduct.

Women who are labeled as such are the popular girls. They are decked out in the big sunglasses, the designer jeans & bags, cute shoes, and so forth. These are the girls who put out an image of class. They are fun to be around and are popular. Most importantly, they exude confidence.
So others apply the term to them as a tear-down.

Thus, it should offend.
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Old 03-02-2008, 07:16 PM
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So others apply the term to them as a tear-down.
I would say, more often than not, it is not used as a tear-down, particularly in a peer-to-peer conversation.
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Old 03-02-2008, 07:20 PM
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I would say, more often than not, it is not used as a tear-down, particularly in a peer-to-peer conversation.
I think this probably depends a lot on the campus and how common it is for anyone to use the terms.

My impression is that the term may have kind of peaked in a lot of places in it's original insulting sense and is now more likely to be used as an intended joke than as an intended insult, but I don't really know.

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Old 03-02-2008, 07:22 PM
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I find it more ironic that it was the subject of an opinion piece at Cal in 2001.

http://www.dailycal.org/article/5525/sorostitutes
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Old 03-02-2008, 09:38 PM
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Mmmm, it's really the opposite. It's an adjective. If one is deemed a sorostitute, more often because of her image, rather than her conduct.

Women who are labeled as such are the popular girls. They are decked out in the big sunglasses, the designer jeans & bags, cute shoes, and so forth. These are the girls who put out an image of class. They are fun to be around and are popular. Most importantly, they exude confidence.
so sorostitute=class? puh-lease, Lord, give me strength! the fact that you young'uns do not see this word as a slam mystifies me. either the perspective of class or prostitutes, or both is askew. i don't care how many times "pretty woman" is viewed,the fact is few prostitutes are swept off their feet and out of a life earning $$ on their backs. it is not glamourous, and sorostitute is not a compliment. and by giggling when you or one of your sisters is called a sorostitute , one allows oneself or ones sister to be objectified.

would it be funny and fill one with confidence if your male boss called you a sorostitute after you have earned a college degree and are in your first job or would that then be sexual harassment? and if the latter, what makes the situation different?

anyone want to storm off into the night with me and burn a few bras?
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Old 03-02-2008, 09:43 PM
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