But I think they're better off trying to get jazzed. I think the enthusiasm in the moment can reassure them that it's going to be a great experience even if it is imperfect at the start.
I think the likelihood of a girl talking herself out of a bid she probably would have enjoyed is greater if she's left on her own to idealize how awesome it would be to be somewhere else rather than starting to celebrate almost immediately.
But I don't really know.
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