Question for the Men

[AlethiaSi]

Originally Posted by ziasha07

How do you feel about women approaching you instead of the traditional way?

I'm not a guy obvi, and I definitely would like to see more input for the guys so thank you Ziasha for asking this question.

As a women, I have approached many men for conversation and/or flirtation, or out a bar and I decide to get some cajones and then I usually just look like an (sometimes a drunk) idiot.
I would like to expand this question to, how do you RESPOND to any of these advances because I get looks like I have 10 heads, or awkward nervous laughs and then silence, or they assume I want to like f*ck right there...

[RU OX Alum]

Originally Posted by AlethiaSi

I'm not a guy obvi, and I definitely would like to see more input for the guys so thank you Ziasha for asking this question.

As a women, I have approached many men for conversation and/or flirtation, or out a bar and I decide to get some cajones and then I usually just look like an (sometimes a drunk) idiot.
I would like to expand this question to, how do you RESPOND to any of these advances because I get looks like I have 10 heads, or awkward nervous laughs and then silence, or they assume I want to like f*ck right there...

so if not interested then you have ten heads but if is interested he is too horny, that is a complete double standard.

[AlethiaSi]

Originally Posted by RU OX Alum

so if not interested then you have ten heads but if is interested he is too horny, that is a complete double standard.

LOL, I was using those things as an example! it's not necessarily one extreme to the other, my advances are often received well, but I was just using those to explain why I was asking, gosh! lol

[RU OX Alum]

Originally Posted by AlethiaSi

LOL, I was using those things as an example! it's not necessarily one extreme to the other, my advances are often received well, but I was just using those to explain why I was asking, gosh! lol

well generally speaking i think it's cool if she makes the first move

maybe you should try some juicy fruit

just kidding

[ziasha07]

Alethia, you're welcome! All of your input is greatly appreciated, keep it coming...