Question for the Men
 

How do you feel about women approaching you instead of the traditional way?

total turn on, let's you know she is up front and honest

I totally agree... And it's usually less likely for the girl to get turned down anyway. I'm not sayin' it's not possible, however... But yea... I like when girls do that. It's 2008 anyway... Girls wanna change stuff, why not change that???

I'm not a guy obvi, and I definitely would like to see more input for the guys so thank you Ziasha for asking this question.

As a women, I have approached many men for conversation and/or flirtation, or out a bar and I decide to get some cajones and then I usually just look like an (sometimes a drunk) idiot.
I would like to expand this question to, how do you RESPOND to any of these advances because I get looks like I have 10 heads, or awkward nervous laughs and then silence, or they assume I want to like f*ck right there...

so if not interested then you have ten heads but if is interested he is too horny, that is a complete double standard.

LOL, I was using those things as an example! it's not necessarily one extreme to the other, my advances are often received well, but I was just using those to explain why I was asking, gosh! lol :p

well generally speaking i think it's cool if she makes the first move

maybe you should try some juicy fruit

just kidding

Alethia, you're welcome! All of your input is greatly appreciated, keep it coming...