Big Sis

[pearlygirl08]

Hi again!
Thanks to everyone for their input! It has really helped me

I have one more question about this issue. How many littles can one person have? Some of the people that I am considering (especially those that are seniors) have had several littles and some of their littles have littles. Can they still have me as a little, or should I find someone who has not had a little before?

Thanks again!

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by pearlygirl08

Hi again!


I have one more question about this issue. How many littles can one person have? Some of the people that I am considering (especially those that are seniors) have had several littles and some of their littles have littles. Can they still have me as a little, or should I find someone who has not had a little before?

Thanks again!

This might vary from chapter to chapter, but we didn't have a limit on how many Littles a person could have.

I only have one Little myself and we have a very special and unque relationship and I wouldn't have it any other way. I felt like I could not only spend more and devote more time to her since it was just her and I. She now has THREE awesome Littles who are the most precious things ever.

In contrast, I'm the first of my Big's FOUR Littles We're quadruplets! I love my Quads and even though 2 of us have graduated, we all still keep in touch. I'm actually in my Twin's wedding and was just hanging out with my Quad (the "baby" Little) last weekend at Initiation.

One thing she always did was if someone happened to match with her, she would ask if we were "okay" with her taking on that new person before she agreed to take them. But we never cared! We all made it a point to hang out and I loved all of the girls so I never felt like I had to "share" my Big.

A piece of advice though: When you're looking at someone who already has Littles, pay attention to how they treat the ones they already have. If they BARELY have time for the ones they have, you probably don't want them for your Big. There were girls in my chapter who had like 3 Littles but never talked to or hung out with them. You don't want that.

[epchick]

Originally Posted by pearlygirl08

Hi again!
Thanks to everyone for their input! It has really helped me

I have one more question about this issue. How many littles can one person have? Some of the people that I am considering (especially those that are seniors) have had several littles and some of their littles have littles. Can they still have me as a little, or should I find someone who has not had a little before?

Thanks again!

Did your New Member Educator tell you which girls were NOT taking littles? I know that my chapter didn't have a limit as to how many little you could take. When we were new members we were told "Susie, Annie and Beth are not taking littles, so don't put them on your list"

[Zeta13Girl]

You should definently talk to your pledge mom about this I know our chapter has a rule that sisters in their last semester are not allowed to take littles. your pledge mom know more about your chapter's rules then any of us would so she would be able to help you out and my guess is that if you are confused about the process there are probably a couple other of your pledge sisters who are also confused and maybe afraid to ask, but this is what your pledge mom is for! Good Luck I hope you get a great big!