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Choose someone you feel comfortable with, who is a good mentor, and is involved.
I was a sophomore when I joined and my Big was a freshman. It didn't matter to me. Even though she was younger than me, she had been in the chapter longer obviously. She helped guide me through being a new member and showed me what it meant to be a good, loyal, contributing sister. She is one of the women who made me the involved alumna that I am today.
I ended up graduating before her, but we are still very close and I'm the maid of honor in her wedding. We are also very involved in the same alumna chapter.
So it doesn't matter what her class standing is, as long as she is committed to being what a Big is supposed to be (a mentor).
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"Remember that apathy has no place in our Sorority." - Kelly Jo Karnes, Pi
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