perplexing situation

[AlethiaSi]

Call me crazy, but I don't understand how someone could go to an event, openly admit that they don't want to join, and eat the food and hang out... if you want to hang out, do it in your own time, not during COB...
I just don't get it.

It takes all kinds....

[pinklion10]

She apparently wants to 'spend time' with us, but it's gotten to the point where she is the only PNM at things. So in short, we do the work, buy the stuff, and do the PR so she will come... and not join.

Bizarre.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by pinklion10

She apparently wants to 'spend time' with us, but it's gotten to the point where she is the only PNM at things. So in short, we do the work, buy the stuff, and do the PR so she will come... and not join.

Bizarre.

I think your issue is more that you're only having 1 person show up to COB events.

She might really not be interested, or she might be slow to warm up to the idea of joining. It's hard to tell not knowing her personally. If you or someone else feel comfortable enough with her, I would sit her down and ask her what her intentions are.