Are your dating standards too high or too low?

[DaemonSeid]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Uh...you might not have had "naturally" shoulder length hair if you didn't have dreds. I know a lot of women who couldn't grow their hair and wore weaves and weaves UNTIL they grew dreds.

It's also funny when men don't know when women are fake from head to toe. A woman can't be shockingly beautiful when you've never seen her in her raw beauty.

whether I had it short or long...I have never liked weaves...I like women natural....

I think that the more fakeness there is, the more is trying to be compensated.

[DSTCHAOS]

Tyra had an excellent show on this that I caught on Oxygen yesterday. It spoke to this thread excellently.

While I despise "social experiments" done by talk shows, this one was interesting enough to spark dialogue.

This very sexy Asian man (not "starang21 sexy" but close) on the experiment panel made a point to announce that not all Asian men are nerds with small penises. The fact that he felt the NEED to announce that is crazy, but oh well. Toward the end, the panelists had to choose panelists to ask to be their fake life partners. All the women declined the Asian man's offer of life partnership because he's Asian.

[DaemonSeid]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Tyra had an excellent show on this that I caught on Oxygen yesterday. It spoke to this thread excellently.

While I despise "social experiments" done by talk shows, this one was interesting enough to spark dialogue.

This very sexy Asian man (not "starang21 sexy" but close) on the experiment panel made a point to announce that not all Asian men are nerds with small penises. The fact that he felt the NEED to announce that is crazy, but oh well. Toward the end, the panelists had to choose panelists to ask to be their fake life partners. All the women declined the Asian man's offer of life partnership because he's Asian.

but they are smart cumputer geeks with great martial arts skills and make lots of money by funneling it thru the Yakuza...what more could a woman ask for?

[AGDee]

As I get older, I have been surprised at who I've become attracted to. Yes, there are men with receding hairlines that I have found very attractive in recent years. I never would've guessed that would happen! (although I did always find myself more attracted to eyes and smiles than anything else).

I also think we end up with more deal breakers over time, but they change as we learn from experience.

Perfect guy for me.. this guy that keeps showing up in my dreams. I'm waiting for the day I actually meet him in person!

But seriously. I'm getting to a point where I really like being alone. I can't imagine having to share a closet with someone else. I want to sit where I want and be in charge of the remote all the time. I don't want to work around someone else. The longer I'm single, the worse it gets.. more set in my ways. So now? I think a long term, every other weekend relationship sounds perfect. I'll see him more when the kids are grown and moved out. He can even move into the house next door to me, but please don't make me do his laundry.

[starang21]

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

but they are smart cumputer geeks with great martial arts skills and make lots of money by funneling it thru the Yakuza...what more could a woman ask for?

and we have great credit.

[starang21]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

This very sexy Asian man (not "starang21 sexy" but close)

:unsure:

no such thing as close.

[DivineDiva47]

I'd half to go with Very High. My opinion is that I can have everything I want in a man because God created me just for him. So, if I am his missing rib then our souls will be meshed. Not that we won't have challenges but when it's an "ordained" relationship the storms can come but it won't shake the foundation. IMHO-if you start to settle the bar may become invisible and then you end up with "fire marshal Bill"..lolol!

[starang21]

high.

why settle?