Well...DBN went to CASE WESTERN for their philanthropy round, but decided after the party to drop out of recruitment

. While she thought the girls were nice (and 'down to earth' in her words)--she just didn't see herself spending a lot of time with them and didn't quite feel the 'connection' vibe from them.
So I guess the story ends here. Thanks for the support from everyone. DBN's sister will be a freshman in college next year--who knows, maybe she'll rush!
If anyone wants to know the code, I'm happy to give it over PM.
And I can now safely say that my niece was at the University of Pennsylvania (aka UPenn). Thanks to everyone for respecting my request not to name the school on the boards (and congrats to anyone who figured it out!).