How most of ya'll reacted initially was really helpful but Im not just gonna do what ya'll tell me because you think its best for me. I didnt have much time to make a decision regarding zeta and the decision I have made I might one day regret and I understand that. However it is not your place to tell me what my priorities should be. I have have other sources of advice from my family, my big, my friends and my fiance and I have also had to weigh that advice too. Initially I was hoping there would be a way I could continue as an active member, I never mentioned any interest in going alum. My mom had an enriching college experience in her sorority, dropped it when she transferred but never joined an alum group and is still a pretty awesome lady. I have not chosen the path of alum and that is something I have to live with and honestly its the last of my worries and I dont appreciate any of you saying that I dont love zeta because you dont know me and you have no idea how hard it was for me to make that decision and luckily some of my sisters have stood by me, but sadly alot havent. You should be more concerned about their love of sisterhood than mine.
I will never give up my sisterhood but now i need to focus on MOTHERHOOD.
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