Pregnant and in a sorority

[violetpretty]

Originally Posted by ztaberry28

On the brightside if its a girl it would be a legacy and if its a boy it would be a triple legacy for pi kappa phi, so itll be very greek...

Your daughter (if you have one now or in the future) won't be a legacy if you withdraw, but she will be if you go early alum.

Originally Posted by ztaberry28

My biggest concern is how I can tell my sisters and them not get upset and make it into a drama fest when this is something that is really important to me.

Oh, avoiding drama is only important IRL, not on message boards.

[skylark]

Originally Posted by violetpretty

Your daughter (if you have one now or in the future) won't be a legacy if you withdraw, but she will be if you go early alum.

Good call! All these things are what I was afraid that perhaps ztaberry wasn't thinking through. Even if she never chooses to be an active alum, imagine her daughter not having the boost of being a legacy in recruitment! And some groups allow and encourage legacy-mothers to be present at their daughter's initiations... that's another experience she'd be potentially giving up along with the legacy distinction.

To me, it doesn't make sense not to fight this... but to each her own.

[SthrnZeta]

Originally Posted by skylark

To me, it doesn't make sense not to fight this... but to each her own.

Especially when it would be such an easy fight!!!