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Originally Posted by violetpretty
Your daughter (if you have one now or in the future) won't be a legacy if you withdraw, but she will be if you go early alum.
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Good call! All these things are what I was afraid that perhaps ztaberry wasn't thinking through. Even if she never chooses to be an active alum, imagine her daughter not having the boost of being a legacy in recruitment! And some groups allow and encourage legacy-mothers to be present at their daughter's initiations... that's another experience she'd be potentially giving up along with the legacy distinction.
To me, it doesn't make sense not to fight this... but to each her own.