COB - Getting an invite

[lindz0722]

I think it depends on how close you are, and if she knows that you're interested in joining Derby Days. If you feel comfortable, you could just say to her "You know, I heard Derby Days is doing COB. I know how much you love being a Derby Days and I was wondering if there's any way I could get an invite for a COB event."

If that seems too forward or you guys aren't really on those terms, maybe you could let it drop to her that you're interested in recruitment and would love to hear a little bit about her experiences in Derby Days. Do NOT mention that you already know Derby Days is holding COB, because then she'll know you're interested in an invite and she'll feel pressured. Having a conversation about Greek life will definitely put inviting you to COB in the front of her mind. Like KSUViolet said, if your friend thinks you'll be a good fit, she'll invite you.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by lindz0722

Do NOT mention that you already know Derby Days is holding COB, because then she'll know you're interested in an invite and she'll feel pressured.

I agree. Quoted for emphasis.